Pond

You are most like a Pond! Other people see you as an easy going individual, someone they can relax with and attain a sense of calm and serenity. To you, bigger isn't always better and you never lust after the material items and luxury. You're low maintenance and laid-back, so it comes as no surprise that you carry a light hearted attitude and a stress free lifestyle. You like to treat others in the way you would prefer to be treated, only with most upmost honesty and respect deserved. Negative energy and weak character are two things you avoid, achieving a balance between mental strength and a pure heart in the process.

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“Single people want relationships, settled people wonder if they’re missing out on something, traveling types miss stability, stable ones are restless, old friends want new friends, new friends miss old friends, and basically almost everyone my age has some dangling worry trailing around after them everywhere that they’re somehow not doing everything, that what they’re doing is not altogether the right thing, that they are missing out. … Do not be ashamed. The doubt is natural, and everyone you know – yes, even that person – carries it sometimes too. Allow yourself to be peaceful. Allow yourself satisfaction in what you have. If you really don’t like it, allow yourself permission to make changes.” 

-Lillian Schneid